Your Wedding
Ceremony
It is your ceremony, and your day. I firmly
believe that your ceremony is an investment in your
relationship, a public pledge of sincere and serious
commitment to one another and with your family and
friends present. Most of all it is an investment in
memories that will last for the rest of your lives. How
we achieve that is by working together to create a
ceremony that is totally and completely
you.
- My focus is you, your ceremony, your story. The
kind of magic that achieves this doesn't just
happen. It takes hard work, which is what I do. I
work very hard to gather information about what you
would like for every aspect of the ceremony from
you, together with the information that helps me
make the ceremony totally unique.
- I custom-create every ceremony specifically for
you, the couple, so your ceremony will be
created with your vision for your ceremony in
mind.
- Your ceremony will include exclusive contemporary
elements that none of your guests will have seen at
another wedding. Even if you choose one of my Warm
and Wonderful weddings (an alternative to the
Registry Office in terms of price and simplicity,
but nothing like the bland and standard ceremony the
Registry Office provides), the ceremony will be an
original creation, not a boiler-plate standard
ceremony.
- Your ceremony won't include tired old
rituals or long-winded readings used as fillers, a
blow-by-blow account of how you met and the daily
details of your relationship, or presumptuous and
boring lectures.
- For a same-sex couple, I take care to ensure that
your ceremony won't ape a traditional heterosexual
wedding with assigned gender roles to meet the
'requirements' of the "traditional' protocols of
such a wedding. I treat you as individuals.
- Your ceremony will be performed with warmth and
friendliness so that your guests are not only
included, they are entertained.
How do I achieve all of that?
- Through extensive knowledge of ceremonies and
celebrancy
- Through thoughtful and in-depth examination of
every aspect of the traditional marriage ceremony
and of other types of ceremonies
- Through a natural bent towards creativity and
pushing the envelope
- Through the wisdom that comes with maturity and
life-experience
All of the above, together with my track record of 1100+
ceremonies, allows me to confidently guarantee that your
ceremony will not be a ho-hum experience. My aim is that
no-one looks at their watch, and everyone goes away
saying "that was so them...." so I take a very creative
approach to fusing tradition with your personal style to
create a contemporary personal ceremony.
And what will all of this
cost?
I am aware that times are tough, and that every couple
is different, so I offer a range of ceremony styles at
fees that reflect the amount of time that each demands
of me. I do, however, apply the same high level of skill
and dedication to every ceremony.
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