What is a
Humanist Celebrant?
As a Humanist I espouse Humanism, and this informs
my ethics and practice as a Celebrant. Humanism is
a rational philosophy informed by science, inspired by
art, and motivated by compassion. It is defined by
the International Humanist and Ethical Union as
... a democratic and ethical life stance,
which affirms that human beings have the right and
responsibility to give meaning and shape to their
own lives. It stands for the building of a more
humane society through an ethic based on human and
other natural values in the spirit of reason and
free inquiry through human capabilities. It is not
theistic, and does not accept supernatural views of
reality.
A Humanist celebrant treats others with courtesy,
dignity, respect and tolerance, and without prejudice or
bigotry.
Humanist ceremonies celebrate the joy and beauty of life
that the Humanist spirit affirms and that has its roots
in love, caring and compassion between the principal
parties in the ceremony (bride and groom, parent and
child and so on)
I believe that principles of tolerance preclude my
taking a hard secular line in ceremonies. If you wish to
express your beliefs it is my role to respectfully
facilitate that.
I have mindfully analysed the structure and content of
weddings and other ceremonies. In Australia the secular
or civil marriage ceremony very closely follows the
order and content of the traditional religious marriage
ceremony, particularly that of the Church of England.
However, in secularising this ceremony civil celebrants
have converted religious practices, such as
incorporating three readings and the blessing of wedding
rings, into their secular equivalents without
necessarily questioning their purpose within the
religious marriage ceremony.
The reason there are three readings in the religious
marriage ceremony is because a Christian religious
marriage ceremony is defined as a service of worship and
all services of worship include a reading from the Old
Testament, New Testament, and the Epistles. In a civil
ceremony you can choose to have as many or as few
readings as you wish.
The reason that words are spoken about the rings is that
at that point in the ceremony the rings were blessed
before they were exchanged.
The traditional religious ceremony includes gender
stereotypes and practices that are not required by
Australian law. so they can be edited or altered to
reflect your beliefs and ceremonial requirements. I
suggest alternatives that send powerful messages of
inclusiveness and of equality between the marrying
couple.